Dear Debbie, It's been decades, but I remember our friendship & have often wondered about you. I didn't expect to find this & I know it must be very hard. I pray you rest, heal, and find comfort in the blessings of your family. I Thessalonians 4 16 For the Lord himself shall descend from heaven with a shout, with the voice of the archangel, and with the trump of God: and the dead in Christ shall rise first: 17 Then we which are alive and remain shall be caught up together with them in the clouds, to meet the Lord in the air: and so shall we ever be with the Lord. 18 Wherefore comfort one another with these words. God Bless You! Sincerely, Donella Barberio & Family